Yesterday I couldn’t believe what I heard. I was at dinner with 2 of my girlfriends and it was great. We were catching up on each others lives when my newly single friend said she went out with this guy and he wasn’t wearing anything underneath his jeans. Okay I have heard of this I know people that just don’t. Well my coupled friend immediately jumped all over her saying she should drop him ASAP. Okay Why? Well apparently it’s this tell tale sign he is a man hoe! Hmm… that was so interesting because I have never heard this before and I would have never thought of this as a sign he was any which way. I know there is an exception to every rule but I do think now that I have heard it that it has to be true for the majority. I honestly could not tell you off hand what are some immediate jerk alert traits. It doesn’t matter I guess I haven’t really had time for a dating life and for once I am okay with it. I am not saying next month I will feel the same but as of now I am happy hanging out with my friends and working. It’s amazing the difference friends can make because you don’t have to spend 24/7 with them to not feel lonely but when you are alone its not so bad. I just don’t want to end up like some robotic girlfriend who has the moves down but when you look in my eyes they are hallow and submissive. Heidi on The Hills for example got so wrapped in Spencer that every look she gave after they were together was empty. She looked like she had this manufactured, scared, vulnerable smile. I know this because I was this. Heart rules the mind and he ruled the heart. I noticed when I was out on Sat. night a girl who was friends with my friend was doing the motions of a strong girlfriend but if you looked at her face you could see she was struggling to keep him happy. She was so gorgeous but her eyes were so helpless and sad. I would like to think all relationships are happy and carefree but from my own experience that doesn’t always ring true. I won’t continue to make my mistakes because I am constantly learning from them.